I just heard of Talkdigger on the latest Geek News Central podcast. This is a site that will aggregate the results from various sites that track referrals. For example, this url will run a query to show all of the sites that link to this blog.
In addition to the standard html results page, the results can be formatted in a rss feed, so you can see the new referrals in your rss aggregator.
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